What should we feel at communion?

Many years ago we had occasion, because of when Easter occurred in the month, to have communion twice in close proximity — about only a week apart. I suppose it was just too much for someone who lamented to me, “it feels like we’re having communion all the time…” It was more a complaint than a compliment.

Whether communion is practiced weekly or monthly, it is still always possible to come to it with feelings of apathy (“here we go again”). Obviously that is not a God-exalting attitude. But how shall we come to communion? Having examined our hearts, what ought the expectations of our minds and hearts be?

In his very helpful little book, Remember Him, J. A. Alexander offers “Feelings Suited to the Ordinance:”

Lowliness in the presence of the God of infinite majesty whom you have offended, and who yet invites you to his table.

Sorrow for sin, and sympathetic tenderness, in consideration of the sufferings of Jesus in your stead.

Faith in Christ, as the Lamb of God, once laid upon the altar, and now significantly offered to you in the [ordinance].

Filial confidence in him, as freely pardoning your sins.

Melting love to the Redeemer, as the chiefest among then thousand and altogether lovely.

Absolute dedication to him, in thankful offering of yourself, to be his for evermore.

Sincere affection to God’s people, who now surround you in fellowship.

As you prepare yourself for the communion table this weekend, don’t merely examine your heart for outstanding sin that has broken fellowship, but examine your heart for the motives and emotions that are fitting for those who yearn to come to the table.