Meditating on the story of Moses and Jethro (Exodus 18), Jon Bloom meditates on how a godly man receives counsel and correction. “Moses: When God’s Direction Comes Through Correction” provides more insight than just how to receive correction, however. The article also serves to encourage those who give counsel about how to offer it in ways that will enhance their effectiveness.
Since everyone needs correction (because we’re all sinners), and as God has equipped all believers with the Word of God and the Spirit of God, positioning them with both ability and opportunity to offer counsel, Bloom’s concluding words are particularly helpful:
Jethro has important things to teach us about bringing godly correction to someone else. First, we should identify specific ways God is working in and through that person and authentically rejoice with him or her. Second, we must have in mind the good of everyone involved and be able to describe what that is. Third, we should ask clarifying questions before we critique or counsel in order to accurately grasp the situation. And fourth, we should be graciously specific in our correction and, if possible, work with him or her to find a helpful solution.
And Moses has important things to teach us about receiving correction from someone else. First, all of us, even the most gifted, have areas that need correction. Second, correction is an opportunity to cultivate valuing God’s glory and other people’s good above our reputation. It helps us not think more highly of ourselves than we ought to think. Third, God might bring correction through an unexpected person. We should keep our ears open and communicate to others receptivity to their input.
Trusting the One who lovingly pursues us with goodness and mercy, even in correction,
Words of Grace 